Ode to Being a Chair by Jacqui Winstanley
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AC Conference, London, March 2008
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Lights, camera, action
Lights, sound, applause
Embracing excellence
Embracing friends
Charging fees –
By being outstanding
With ourselves
With our clients
In our community.
Love, gratitude and belonging
Passion, purpose, performance
Purpose, passion, performance
Embracing excellence
With ourselves, with our clients
With our community –
Wherever you’re from.
Presentation with confidence
In this new world of coaching
Love, gratitude and belonging
A position of privilege
In this world of excellence.
Shoes or coaching
Or is it, two pairs of shoes
Or coaching?
OK, let’s redefine success
What will you do
When you grow up?
Where will you be?
Do you believe in yourself?
Love gratitude and belonging
Strive for excellence
Not, for perfection
In a plastic bag.
Is it time for consciousness? If not now, when?
Feed forward
And say, “thank you”
Then silence …
Conversations with my daughters
Bring out perfect notes
Through belief over technique –
Are you up for it?
If not – don’t come back;
But one rule; one rule only
Use good judgement
In whatever, you do.
Blessed be he who bloweth
His own trumpet
He saves the cost of
The trumpeter.
KPIs or sticks in the mud
To develop the culture
Towards the vision
See the four stars.
Try not to elect
The political jokes
The count down
On one leg.
When relationships inspire
Things improve
But does the light bulb really
Wish to change?
Coaching clichés continue to rain down.
Does this make sense?
Love, gratitude and belonging
Some Mission Statement…
The power of independence
Is greater than the power
Of collaboration.
Pregnant with potential
Pregnant with possibility
Can a black hole be pregnant,
Particularly at the performance edge?
And now –
A mention of our sponsors
Or not …
A professional coach or
An industrial coach??
No contest. Even tho’
This makes it my third profession
Not the oldest but the best
(Elliot Spitzer eat your heart out)
Three statements to read at 9:05 am
Can we sustain this?
Nature will win
We continue to be responsible
Coaches continue to grow responsibility
Midwife (or, wet-nurse?)
But – let’s move on
Let’s play by the rules
Of the game.
Is it possible to have
Only two sessions
With a psychotherapist?
Have the vision to ask
The better questions
To shift from fear to trust
Meaning, purpose and values
Love, gratitude and belonging
Honour the people
Honour the person
Than you, guys!
Biting on the edge
Now what? It becomes
The unconscious competence
Creativity and innovation
What does it all mean?
“Meaning” is the new bottom line
Just take a deep breath
We haven’t got the same fears
And insecurities as our clients.
We, have our own.
We have our own imprint on the soul
54 dollars to get my life back
Into the closet – and get
Promotion. And be who you are
Not what you are.
Take off the shell and get
To the yolk. Make fish pie.
Find the essence of your dream!
Know what you’re uniquely built to do.
We’re on the brink
Of being human – human becomings
Not just human beings.
Of the soul – it’s in the not knowing.
See one, do one, teach one.
Good medicine for good business
Building trust
Getting down
To the same level
Coach or doctor
No complicity of silence
When it’s knife to skin
Coach or doctor
Give it to us
We’ll do it for you;
Like flying off the edge
To find the reason for living
Love, gratitude and belonging
Filling the water jugs
Every day – to find out
What’s really going on.
What’s your knife to skin moment?
What’s your water jug round?
Don’t underestimate the power of one.
Creating the higher purpose
Creating the transformation
Learn, be inspired, celebrate.
Love, gratitude and belonging
Honouring each other
Honouring our clients
With humanity in the workplace
Owning our knowing with real
Presence.
At the edge. Must fly!
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Use stories
Use stories in your championship
Speech
The ironmonger, the bully
Flying across the Atlantic
Use stories
Use stores to win
Use stories from your heart
On black & whit TV
The power of stories
Ha-Ha!
Aha!
Ahhh!
A-men!
Entertain
In three ways
Ideas and values that really matter
Paint a picture
Fire the imagination
Relate to the audience
Logic, order, structure
Beginning, middle, end
Left side
Paint a picture
Right side
Of the brain
Stories for the whole head
First rule:
There are no rules!
Action (plot)
Characterisation
Eloquence
Don’t let it be
A series of words
Let it be stories
To move the audience
From A to B to Zee
Plot the points
Point the plots
Encapsulate in seconds
What might take hours
Add drama, suspense and conflict
To the pot. To the plot?
Create a sense of moment.
Fight back
Drama, suspense, conflict
Don’t let them turn out the light
Let the characters shine through
By description
By example, by dialogue
The spoken story is not
The written story
Deliver the dialogue
No-one will dare to whisper
If you put yourself
In character
Use the voice
Move the plot
Be true to the stuff of legend.
A stick, tick, ticking of a social
Time-bomb
A tick, tick, ticking of a social
Time-bomb.
Pedalling towards the ramp
Faster and
Faster and
Faster
Till he shot over
The handlebars –
The Flying Scotsman
The tartan lily
Soaken and bedraggled
For 15 years on
Video tape for all but
Mother. Take the beginning
Right to
The end.
Be memorable. But don’t always
Use voices. The same stuff
Can still be fresh…
As a daisy. But, ask
Does it really add to
The Story?
Be eloquent. I have seen war
I hate war…I appeal
To the senses; I appeal to
You. On this
Cold, bleak, morning
Assonance, alliteration
Poetic, memorable structure.
3B living in the grip of fear
Life was a misery
Until came the sparrow
With 5 senses rampant
Araft of bad times
Holborn Speakers on a bad day
10 years later, they’ll remember.
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Deep and Calm
Very driven, in a certain way.
I’ve become autocratic
Deep and calm
It’s got to make sense
It’s got to make money
It’s more intense
It’s more unpleasant
A home, no home
It’s cost my son
It’s cost my husband
It’s cost me
My enjoyment of life
But it’s not that bad
When you’re ninety-five
With a young toy-boy, and
You look back and
Stop worrying
Be – at your crossroads
Be – self-aware
Make your choices
Clarify. Don’t resign.
It’s not easy but
It’s surprisingly simple
There’s not a crisis to fix
It’s all done
Between sadness and anger
Leading to now
Looking for difficult situations
Till I’m ninety-five
Don’t wait to speak out
Stop and look around.
Reduce the problems
You’re going to solve
Use the energy elsewhere
Do what is necessary
To express your life
Through joy and contentment.
It’s not about getting rid
It’s having the choice.
“Why” doesn’t change anything
I don’t know “why” it’s there
An old unpleasant
Familiar feeling
Resentment
Somewhere between
Bitterness and sadness
Joyless-ness
Sunday evenings back to school
The end of a chapter
A little empty
Strongly self-reliant
And independent
Empathetic, competitive
Self-contained
But looking back
Has made me
Stifle other people
The Calvinist principle
But sometimes it’s not
Necessary. It’s just a
Valuable reserve
Not a prime-mover
I can see the damage
I can change NOW!!
In September 2007 no longer a prime-mover
Good choice. Make
A special and positive difference
To myself and others.
Am I too independent?
My heart pounds with fear
Up to my neck
In the puddle I’d dipped my toe in
A hammer smashing an apple
Gratifying because expected
Be seen to be coping
With tears from my father
Seeing without my glasses
Eleven years old
Seek them out
Confront them
With industrial strength friends
To break the habit
Of my dad
Tackle him with anger and pride
Letting go; welcoming people
Into my life. Thank you from
My old lady.
David Adams
25th September, 2007
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Who you are is permanent
What you are changes
Imagine what you do want
Be ready to receive it;
Believe, open your mind.
Do something different
Don’t just try harder
It’s the people not the money
It’s what they do with it
To extend the good.
We are the offspring of a
Deathless soul
That’s the Secret
The Law of Attraction
We become what we think about
Invest in your own personal growth
The learners will inherit the earth.
You can’t manage time – only activities
Just do it!
Do the things you truly love to do
Think! Make the decision
Everything Moves. Thought is the most
Potent energy. Our thoughts are omnipresent
We become what we think about.
The money will come from
Wherever it is right now.
The Main Thing is to keep
The main thing the main thing.
Share it – you’ll enjoy it more
I want to know how it happens
You’ve got to look inside
So I can tell you
What I’m doing
What is – my Purpose
Link your thoughts with Purpose
Find out what
You love to do
And, just do it. That’s your
Purpose.
Develop awareness.
Let your awareness expand
Expand your awareness.
Some people would rather be
Right than rich.
Paradigms shape our logic
Paradigms control our perception;
Your logic controls your time
Change the paradigm through
Hope. Give yourself options. Repeat.
Listen to the same thing
Over and over and over
To get the ideas
Fixed – in your mind
So they become fixed habits
But – you can’t just read the book
To change the annual income
To the monthly income.
From Abundance, he took
Abundance. And still, Abundance
Remained.
Set up multiple sources of income
Build a Fantasy
Of how
You really
Want to live.
Can I do it?
Am I able?
Am I willing?
Then turn your fantasy into a goal
What do I really want?
See it; believe it; do it.
You’ve got to know where you’re going
And then, you’re going to get there.
But – you do have to study.
Calm down and speed up.
Know the things
You’re going to do
Tomorrow. Take control.
What you see is a reflection of you.
What you see is what you have
Do you have a vision?
How big is your vision?
The only thing that satisfies the Soul, is
“Thank you, I love you.”
Whatever is highest of your values
Is what you will do.
Inspiration is from the highest value
Motivation is from the lowest.
The hierarchy of values
Dictates your destiny
If you think you’re not successful
With whom are you comparing yourself?
It’s a different form of success
No-one has to get you up
In the morning
To get you to do
What you love to be doing.
Shift your hierarchy of values
The hierarchy of your values
Dictates your destiny;
Have an inspired life
Be in your own space
Ask amazing questions
Be true to your intention
Nothing is ever missing
It’s just not within
Your level
Of awareness;
Honour your own magnificence;
Appreciate what you’ve got
Say thank you
To a dream come true
Gratitude is the Secret. So is love.
Everyday, record your gratitude
Gratitude is where it starts
Look for the authentic moment
Change the Paradigm
Share Love and Gratitude.
I can do that!
Believe in the possibilities
Look for the traits
See them in me
Give yourself permission to
Shine
Nothing, can stop me.
David Adams
With thanks to Akasha, Bob Proctor and Dr John Demartini
5th August, 2007, London
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Midwife coaches
Let’s be on the same page
About coaching
It starts in you – in here
The emotionally intelligent
You remember
You relate
To be a decent coach
You’ve got to go there
Like a leader
But GROW is only a sequence
Coach and build yourself
And, others
Get them to be aware and responsible
Overcome the opposition
In your own head
Ask – what’s the block
In your own head?
The time it takes is
The time it takes
Just ask – what would you do?
We are our history. So, change
Our outer behaviour –
That doesn’t work – it’s not
Coaching – it’s instruction
From psychology to coaching
Be more aware
It’ll all be Okay.
But ya got to be spiritual
Ya got to be aware
Beyond your person
But the next stage is
Already here.
As we take the unmentioned
Evolutionary journey
Through four stages (of consciousness)
From ego-centric
To ethno-centric
And then
From World-centric
To Kosmo-centric –
All that is…all that is…
We have to change instruction
To coaching. This is the way
We have to think. Driving.
OK, half an hour to change the world.
Have you been there
Yourself?
Are you on a horizontal or
A vertical journey to your
Crisis of Meaning?
What was meaningful yesterday
Is not so meaningful today.
Where do I intervene?
Give them the graph
And ask them what it means;
Listen, to the conversation
And find the direction
For now
In order to pay the rent!
In my crisis of duality
Get in touch with that part of me
That knows – the higher self.
But the upper hand will become
The lower hand and
The lower hand will in turn
Become the upper, the upper
And Eeyore, the victim
And Tigger the hero
And who you really are
So what part of you wants
To do that?
Recognise, accept, co-operate and
Integrate. Harmonise. Make every cell
Go in the same direction
And then dis-identify
Tuning up individually
Before the concert
But then you need
The conductor.
Become the conductor of your own orchestra
Become the “I”
Have pure will and
Pure consciousness
Build the awareness
Build the responsibility
But it is a journey – not
A destination.
We have allowed
Ethno-centric people to rule
The World. And coaching
Is at the OK end
Of the spectrum
Directly geared to helping
People
Find out
Who
They really are.
Passion coupled with humility
Poetry at the super conscious level.
Be the midwives of the transformation
Of the world.
David Adams, with thanks to Sir John Whitmore
London, 3 July 2007.
www.unlocking-creativity.com
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